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Lora, I Love You, too

4/7/2021

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It was the last few minutes before the girls' bedtime. Micaela had crossed over into the persona of an exhausted two-year old and adamantly refused to put pajamas on. Adela whined tiredly about not getting to finish setting up a Lego dinosaur zoo she was building. Anger and frustration blossomed into lies about my abilities as a mom and the personalities of my children. 

I've been through this scene a hundred times. Usually I just plow through it and grit my teeth. I skip reading a book, rush through prayers and lullabies, and shut their door firmly behind me. However, the other night I tried something new. I'm going through a series right now about self-talk by Karen Stubbs and so I took a deep breath as Adela went to brush her teeth and Micaela went to retrieve a baby doll. "Lora," I asked myself, "how are you doing?" As if a trusted friend had asked me the question, I answered sincerely, "I'm really tired tonight." Just like that, my eyes opened to truth. I was so very tired. My head was full of fog and my body was weary. I did not have the energy to pretend cheerfulness but I wanted to be kind. The truth turned into prayer and I asked God to help me. 

Feelings of peace and compassion rushed through my soul. The frustration and anger melted away as I acknowledged my true condition and my inability to achieve perfection. 

The miracle followed. I returned to my wrestling match with Micaela and the pajamas, but now, calm and kind, I got her ready for bed without yelling and ended with many hugs. I got through three pages in our chapter book, said prayers with sincerity, and sang their lullabies with love. I closed their door, still weary, but intensely moved by how powerful it had been to give myself compassion and ask God to come along side me.

I think we all know what our red-flag moments are: those attitudes, thoughts, actions, and words that warn us that we have come to the end of ourselves. Dear Lord, I wish I would invite you in before I become too empty, but I am thankful You are always willing to come to me in my weakness. 
They will neither hunger nor thirst, nor will the desert heat or the sun beat down on them. He who has compassion on them will guide them and lead them beside springs of water.
Isaiah 49:10, NIV
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Have you ever stopped and taken stock of your own red-flag moments?
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Becky
4/10/2021 05:06:33 am

Absolutely amazing ... thank you for the encouragement.

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Kyla Gray
4/12/2021 09:28:30 am

Would you mind sharing what the study by Karen Stubbs is. it sounds like something worth looking at. thanks, k

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Lora
4/19/2021 05:31:33 am

Absolutely. It is called "Self Talk" by Karen Stubbs. I watched the supporting videos on Right Now Media through my church's account. I will email you that link. Also, you can find all her material on https://birdsonawiremoms.com/

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Denese
5/5/2021 10:51:41 pm

Spot on. You always have a way to help with the daily walk with the LORD!

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Denese
6/15/2021 03:23:33 pm

You always help me remember the little things that make my walk with Christ amazing. Love this.

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